The Lucy Family

The Lucy Family

Sunday, February 16, 2014

blowing rock 2014.

every mlk weekend we travel to blowing rock to have a little fun in the snow.  it was mine and trey's 6th trip, sarah kate & beau's 5th trip, and hayes's 2nd trip.  it was the coldest one yet!  but we had such a great time - we built a snowman, played in the snow, went sledding, went out to different fun places to eat, went to boone, and enjoyed being cozy by the fire.  

our annual blowing rock trip has become one of our favorite lucy family traditions!  
here come the pics!!!  i took a million - none of my children (beau included) actually enjoy pics so i may get about 20 good ones for every million taken;)  ha!

sweet beau boy!  he never minds the snow at all, but the altitude bothered him a little this year.    he needed more oxygen up there!  but he acclimated after friday night and slept well saturday and sunday nights.

headed downtown to play and to eat at our favorite lunch spot!

sk is a good sport and obliges hayes in whatever she wants to do.  and on this particular day, hayes wanted to feed everyone some of her puffs.


making snowballs to throw at us



our driveway!  it snowed a lot on friday night and saturday so we had a rough time with this darn driveway!

hats off to all the snow moms out there.  great for a visit but i'd hate to have to layer up so much each time we went outside!  she looks like randy from the christmas story.  

hayes kissing on her "sissy"

obligatory annual boot pic!


3 of my kids (dumbo counts).  the other was "napping" aka - playing in the pack n play before going back out to play in the snow.

he was always just part of the family!   

s'mores!  


getting started on the little snowman



mission complete!  

snow angels

proud girl!


headed down our steep driveway to our car to go to dinner.  fancy nancy book set in tow of course;)


sledding








miss sassy backward pants=)

she loves books so much!  and hats - no matter who they belong to.

thankful for this trip and for good family fun.

"our peace shall stand as firm as rocky mountains." - shakespeare


Saturday, February 15, 2014

the day of love.

every single valentine's day we do the same thing.  we stay in and trey cooks my most favorite meal in the world - lamb chops with mint mustard sauce, orzo with feta, basil, & pine nuts, and steamed asparagus.  and we drink champagne with fresh blueberries/raspberries.


the girls had a romantic dinner at home curtesy of moes.  we usually eat there on fridays for lunch but today we had a picnic at the park so it worked out perfect for them to have their moes for dinner.

sister picnic.  hayes thinks she's so big.  
hayes is a food swiper.  she does this at school too i've been told.  little stealer.  

anyway, i barely survived the week.... but i did!  school was cancelled because of the weather.  hayes was sick anyway with a cold.  i've been battling a cold.  i'm reminded of my boy ALL the time.  my front seat passenger's side is lonely.  i think i see him and hear him all the time, but it's already getting a little easier with each passing day.

the girls got tutu bathing suits with silver hearts for valentine's day

sister love.....



SEWE is going on this weekend downtown charleston.  it was terribly windy today but we went down anyway and had a good time!  we watched the dock dogs do their jumping and that was fun.
sk had a good view of the dogs!


we went to the petting zoo as well - sk was so timid to feed all the animals but hayes needed to be a little more timid.  she was ecstatic. she loved all the animals, loved feeding them and making animals sounds at them.  any unfortunate child who found themselves standing in front of an animal that hayes was wanting to see promptly got shoved aside by our little haysie girl.  how does the shakespeare quote go...."and though she be but little, she is fierce."  

"And now these three remain: faith, hope and love. But the greatest of these is love". 1 Corinthians 13:13



Tuesday, February 11, 2014

peaceful dreams little buddy.

i was looking back on my 3 or 4 beau updates that i blogged since his congestive heart failure diagnosis last april and i realize that i was insanely optimistic and maybe in denial.  well anyway, even the vet said that he had done remarkably well and that we had done a very good job with him over these past 10 months.  but what we dreaded and what we knew was coming has come.  beau's sweet heart was sick and all the meds could no longer keep him comfy so we had to let him go.  

beau beau lucy.  9/6/05 - 2/10/14


he began to struggle last week.  his coughing and panting increased especially at night.  friday night was rough so trey took him in saturday morning and the vet confirmed what we already knew - it was time.  we had done all we could do.  we didn't want him to suffer.  trey made the appointment for monday morning and brought beau on home so that we could spend the weekend with him.  we had a good day saturday and sunday.  in fact, on saturday i laid on the bed with him and prayed that god would show me a sign that we were doing the right thing because he seemed like same ole happy beau.  of course he had just gotten a nice big shot of lasiks at the vet, but still, i needed a sign.  we played outside some and we snuggled and loved.  then on sunday evening and throughout the night i got my sign and pleaded with god to make it stop - we even debated taking him into the 24 hour emergency vet.  he couldn't breathe, was nervous, panted, coughed, couldn't get settled and even had an accident in the hall.  so at 8 am on monday morning we took him in - clearly struggling.  thankfully, my mom came up sunday night to say goodbye and to be home with the girls while we took him in.  it was such a relief to see all those struggles leave his handsome little self.  he just fell right to sleep so peacefully.  and he looked like old beau - we haven't been keeping his hair cut short so he was laying on a soft blanket on that table with his grinch-like furry feet and his long wavy ears were laid out and i could have stayed there all day long just kissing his sweet furry little face.  the cutest dog face that ever was.

this is beau on sunday by his favorite tree.  he even chased the shadows of birds all over the ground.

all of the following pics are from sunday night - just saying goodbye


talented boy!


kiss kiss. 


we are so glad he is out of pain but we are very sad.  i miss him.  i missed him today in the car line at school - he went with us everyday to school.  i went through a local coffee house drive through today and missed him - a couple of weeks ago the barista saw how much he enjoyed the milk bone so she gave us 2.  it made his day!  i miss seeing him at the door, i miss seeing him in his regular little sleeping spots, i miss him keeping my lap warm....i just miss him.

sarah kate has been prepared for this day but is still sad.  she cried all the way to school today.  at the same time she's already ready to think about getting another dog - preferably a pink one and if God doesn't make pink dogs then at least a girl dog this time.  i'm not ready to think about all that just yet.  
hayes calls for him during meals.  she's wondering where in the world the furry vacuum cleaner is!
trey's heart is broken just like mine.  well maybe not JUST like mine but close to it.  it's no secret that beau was a mama's boy.  

anyway, that's that.  i'll love him forever and ever!

i have been on a blogging hiatus.  not just because we've been busy but because blogger messed up a few of my posts that i was working on and i got frustrated - i don't have time for that!  i'll work on it soon - lots to document.  we took our blowing rock trip and i have pics from that.  beau's last blowing rock trip!  glad he was able to go!
beau in the snow
peaceful dreams little buddy.

Tuesday, January 7, 2014

1.5 and 4.5

a very wordy half birthday documentation for my memory's sake......

this girl was 1 and a half years on the 29th of december....

and this girl was 4 and a half years old on the 6th of january.....


both are lucys.  both are girls.  they live in the same house and have bedrooms upstairs.  and that about sums up what these two sisters have in common!  ha!  just kidding (kind of).  they both love music and they both LOVE to play in sk's room after they are dressed for bed.  sk wants to share her room with hayes when hayes is old enough.  

anyway, here are some things about these 2 to document...

sk at 4 and a half....
*cautious
*favorite food: quesadilla (preferably from moes)
*artsy and dramatic
*wants to be a doctor when she grows up or an actor....or a princess.
*favorite color: pink
*just learning to ride a bike with training wheels.  doing well!  goes very SLOW....cautious.
*loves to draw pictures and make her own art.  coloring is not her favorite thing though.
*loves to pretend like she's wearing makeup.  just loves to pretend in general!  all day!
*loves her sister and is very patient with her and kind to her.  she thinks hayes is so funny.  she gets frustrated with her from time to time but not much.
*she loves school. 
*she loves dressing up but doesn't have to do it every single day anymore like she did at 2 and 3.  
*loves beau and bella but doesn't love ON them.  she's cautious around animals but likes to talk about them.
*wears size 4 or 5.
*wears a size 9 or 10 shoe.
*sk converses in a rather proper way which is hilarious.  she answers questions in complete sentences.  for example, "would you like more apple?"  sk: "i would."  she rarely ever answers with yes or no but does now more than she has in the past.
*she is laid back and easy going about alot of things but is very particular about other things.  right now she is really against any of her jackets that zip up.  she wants to wear coats that button.  and she gets all winey about the zip up ones.  
*she can write her name well.  however, she doesn't like writing anything correctly - for example, alot of times she'll put a 4th line on a capital "E" and say that she knows it's not right but it's the special way she likes doing it.  or she'll say a word completely wrong even though she has zero language/speech problems and she'll say that she just likes her way better.  annoying.  for example, a "napkin" is ALWAYS a "wap-cume."  seriously....nobody knows what she's talking about except for trey and myself! or instead of "movie" she'll say "woovie."  i overheard dumbo and sk having an argument over this the other day....sk: "it's MOVIE dumbo!"  dumbo: "no sissy, it's WOOVIE!" and back and forth they went.
*oh yeah, dumbo is still my 3rd child, her little brother, and has a very unique accent that i'll have to video and put on here.  i don't know how to describe it.  (obviously sk speaks for dumbo).
*she loves her daddy & enjoys doing special things with just him.
pretending to be a mermaid - sc aquarium
aside from all of that: she's very kind to others, she is sensitive, she is tenderhearted, she can come across as shy & reserved (but obviously she isn't that way at home!), she is really creative and imaginative, she sleeps pretty late, she likes being outside a lot but is perfectly content playing inside for hours, she likes movies, she likes princesses alot but is not obsessed like she once was, she loves her friends, she is obsessed with ALL of her family, she's goofy, and she's cute as a button!  and those curls!  she's still my curly girly - some days it looks more like a rat's nest but some days they are beautiful.  she loves her hair everyday!!  and she loves her freckles.  and she thinks hayes is "SOOO cute!"  

hayes IS cute!  and she's 18 months!  she's really naughty, mischievous, snuggly, needy, LOUD, talkative, coy, and smart.

*hayes is not cautious at all.
*climber
*she loves animals and wants to hug on them (beau is her favorite and hayes is beau's least favorite..ha!)
*hayes wants to be outside ALL the time.  if she's inside she either wants me to be holding her or else she's into trouble (like pulling things out of our bathroom drawers or climbing on the kitchen table).  she loves slides, balls, riding toys, running, swinging, etc.  (likes being physical)
*she sleeps with her pacifiers but has to leave them in the crib otherwise.
*she likes to wear her winter hat and jacket....all the time.  i think it's because it makes her feel like she's going to get to go outside.
*she loves school.  she stands at the door and says, "cool" alot.
*she loves to go down to a neighbor's house to see the "moo." (they have a wooden cow in their yard - it holds their water hose).
*she gives kisses.  she makes the MUAH (kiss) sound after she has given the kiss.
*she loves loves loves books!  she loves to bring you a book and turn around and back into your lap to get ready to be read to.
*favorite book right now: goodnight moon (big time!!!!  she's obsessed!)
*favorite food: scrambled eggs and cheese
*she loves shoes.
*she loves to ride her sister's tricycle which is one reason why sk has started riding her bike more - sk has a soft spot for her sis and if hayes wants to ride the trike then hayes gets to ride the trike!  hayes's legs aren't long enough for her to pedal the trike just yet but as soon as they are then she'll be off!  she loves to ride the plasma car (pictured above) and the cozy coupe.
*she has a big vocabulary.  she can say basically anything so i can no longer really document her words or word count.  she does jibber jabber quite a bit....seriously sounds like she's speaking a different language. i kind of dread the full blown sentences coming - sometimes it sounds like she's telling me right off when she gets going in her jibber jabber.  she can't count yet but says the number 9 when we count the stairs.  she shouts AMEN really really loud after sissy says the blessing.
*hayes has to go to time out some.  she doesn't like it and if i ask her if she wants to go then she says, "NO!"
*hayes can throw a tantrum.  no problems there.
*she is usually not shy or reserved
*climbed & fell out of her crib during nap time yesterday.  awesome.
*wears 18 month clothes.
*shoe size: 5 - 5.5
*diaper size: 4 during the day, 5 at night.
*went through a HUGE daddy phase (like all her life basically) but is kind of a mama's girl these days.
*she dropped the sleep sack!  this was sad to me.  how could she not want to be zipped up in that cozy thing?  i tried to keep her in it but she kept taking it off.  sk would have NEVER even dreamed of unzipping her sleep sack and slept in one until she was almost 3!  sk is a mini-katie....we like to be comfy cozy.  sometimes if hayes is in zip up pj's she'll even take those off!! what???  why oh why would she want to do this?  and when she is in regular shirt/pants pajamas then she leaves them on but takes off her socks.  again....why?  i cannot relate to this child.  she is so very ACTIVE...again, why?  she is not a homebody....again, why?  she loves to see and be seen while out and about....again, WHY?  ha!
*slacker mama here waited until the last minute to make her 18 month appointment so i wasn't able to get her in until later in february.  she'll be 19 months by then but i'll still document her stats on here after we go.

we love our hayesie baby so much!  she is so lively and makes us laugh so hard!  she has a big personality and although she is naughty she is very loving.  she absolutely has mischief in her sweet eyes.

happy half birthday, girls!  love you both to the moon and back a million times.


Wednesday, January 1, 2014

we wish you a merry christmas and a happy new year!

i've fallen behind on documenting my girls and their recent happenings, but we did have a very merry south georgia christmas (with a little trip to disney included) and a very happy charleston new year!

christmas cousins!!


christmas morning

santa baby

christmas sisters



a disney post to come! (maybe)
new years eve with great friends

tea party and bbq - the way princesses ring in 2014
a sparkly end to a fun night

someone really special (and a little crazy) turned 18 months old on december 29th!  18 month post to come!

praying all of our family & friends have a new year full of good health and great happiness.